There is nothing wrong with being gay.  But marrying someone known to be straight when you are not and don’t make that clear, is wrong.

Most have heard of stories where spouses have come out gay.  There is applause for the ones that came out to find their true selves, while the spouses are ignored and forgotten.  What about the cost to the them, their hopes and dreams?  They did not sign up for this “dream.”  They had been denied their true selves.  No one cares they came out “straight” as before.  No one cares they’ve always been true to themselves, but were deceived.

The problem with the deceivers has to do with their character and not their orientation.  Being gay does not give permission to stay in the closet while hurting and denying others of their basic needs to be fully appreciated, desired and loved.  One can remain in the closet all they want on their own.  Please don’t take others with you!